I’ve had a lot of trouble with weight and trying to lose weight, but I am failing with every passing year.
I was diagnosed with ADHD as an Adult, after being referred to a bariatric surgical team where I was fitted with a gastric band, which did not work for me.
I was given support following the failure of the gastric (lap) band to try and determine why this wasn’t working for me, and after several years no conclusive solution was ever reached, before the various support teams had to discharge me without answers.
I also have a physical disability (a mobility issue) and I use a walking aid to support my right side, as my hip, knee and pelvis are all not able to support me, despite being pinned and reinforced where needed.
I find exercising in a gym incredibly dull. The repetitive nature of it really works two ways on me:
- I constantly lose count a lot or forget the routine I’m doing.
- If I try to write things down, I forget what it was or where I left the paper, etc.
I’ve had lots of people say things like: “You need to work at it, nothing comes to those who don’t work for it. y’know.” and other helpful sayings like: “You got to work hard to get what you want in this life” and “You just need discipline, be firm with yourself.” & “Stick to only eating three times a day.”
You get the idea.
I’m not moaning or complaining, but I find exercising utterly dull and sometimes painful. I’d love to play a sport, like I did when I was younger, but my knee won’t allow it. I’m convinced I could get rid of the walking stick and crutches if I somehow slipped into a medically induced coma for 12 months lying there while living a a drip to wake up to a slimmer me with atrophy (is that right?) in my muscles and a few weeks of daily physical therapy, that would be great.
Another solution I had was if I didn’t have to think about meals at all, and it was all done for me and there was nothing else to eat, I could do it, providing I am kept busy, and by busy I mean able to do things I want to do and not have to do.
I’ve often “forgotten to eat” if I’ve been busy doing things I enjoy or if I’ve been preoccupied with something else and lost track of time, but it’s not until someone reminds me I haven’t eaten, do I start wanting to eat … yeah, I know. I even start to experience physical symptoms, belly rumblings, dizziness, etc.
I also been at the other end of the scale where I’ve forgotten I’ve already eaten! yeah, I’ve had days with 2 breakfasts or 2 lunches or 3 dinners, it’s nuts.
I know the nutrition information, I know the resting metabolic rate and to lose 1 pound of weight you need a negative 500 calories a day for a week, I know a single pound of weight is 3500 calories, etc.
I’m hoping that this product is basically a total complete meal replacement, something I don’t need to think about or plan – I just have one one breakfast, lunch and dinner and then a snack bar and that’s it, that’s the day, every day for a month.
I can’t seem to find a meal plan for this product. I know everyone is different, but how many calories is in one of these? Does everyone make up the powder the same way, or is it dependant on preference, e.g. some like it watery, some like it thick, etc?
I’d really appreciate someone replying with how many of these things they make up a day and if everyone makes it up the same way, e.g. a tablespoon of powder and 500ml of water, etc.